Imagine this: You’re in the hospital, unable to speak. Doctors are asking what to do. Your loved ones are standing there—anxious, unsure, afraid of making the wrong call.
It’s a moment no one wants to picture, but it happens more often than you think.
Now imagine a different version of that moment: Someone you trust—someone who knows your values and wishes—is calm, clear, and ready to speak for you. Because you chose them, and you planned ahead, they are ready.
What Is a Healthcare Proxy?
A healthcare proxy, also known as a healthcare power of attorney, is someone you legally name to make medical decisions on your behalf if you can’t speak for yourself.
This isn’t just a form. It’s one of the most meaningful decisions you can make about your future.
It’s about trust. It’s about love. It’s about protecting your voice.
Why It Matters
Without a healthcare proxy in place:
- Medical decisions can fall to the wrong person—or to no one at all.
- Families may argue. I’ve seen it happen.
- Your care may not reflect your true wishes.
This role isn’t always about who loves you the most—it’s about who can honor your choices, even when it’s hard. Who knows you deeply enough to understand what matters most?
Ask yourself:
- Who understands my values and wishes?
- Who can stay calm under pressure?
- Who will advocate for me, even if others disagree?
It could be your partner, a child, a friend—someone who truly gets you. If you’re not sure, that’s okay. Take your time. Talk it through with those you love.
A Story That Changed Everything
I once worked with a family where the daughter lived nearby, but she didn’t fully understand her mother’s values. The son, who lived farther away, did. He knew her views on medical care, dignity, and quality of life. She chose him as her proxy, and when the time came, he was ready.
That one decision turned a moment of chaos into a moment of peace and connection.
What You Can Do Today
- Choose your healthcare proxy.
- Talk to them about your wishes.
- Put it in writing using your state’s healthcare power of attorney form.
Look at the full picture. Consider creating:
- An advance directive
- A HIPAA release
- A financial power of attorney
- A will
These aren’t just documents. They’re gifts. They protect your dignity and your voice.
Take the First Step
To help, I created a free guide:
“When You Can’t Speak for Yourself: The 5 Documents You Need to Protect Your Wishes.”
It explains each document in clear, simple language and helps you get started right away.
📥 Download the free guide here
If the guide helps and you’re still unsure what to do next, you don’t have to figure it out alone. Schedule a consultation and get expert support to move forward with clarity and confidence.
Don’t wait for a crisis. Make your voice heard—starting today.